adat atau agama?

assalamualaikum.

dah pernah baca dah pasal benda ni. dulu lagi dah pernah baca. kalau tengok tarikh benda tu disubmit pun tahun lepas. so, dah lama lah kiranya. tapi orang kata, fakta tetap fakta. kalau fakta memang tidak akan berubah melainkan auta.

But i am wondering is that thing a realistic for nowadays? if  yes, than why people did not practice it as a common culture in here? maybe we are not that open-minded for this. But yet, we know that somehow it is a good practice to curb or get far far away from all of the negativeness. or maybe we just don't believe our own capabilities and trust in ourselves. or maybe we are confuse to put which to put as our first priority nevertheless we had already knew because it is a common sense. and maybe we don't be that sensitive to think and to wonder for something like this. doesn't matter who you are, either a parent, a child, a sister, a brother, a neighbor, a friend or whatever your title are, you somehow need to think about this. something that people care less. and me, for once, .... i don't know what to say more. only He knows.

and what if the answer is no, then another simple question to ask, why not? since we can see literally that it brings more benefits especially for someone that they have found something they wished for but there are some circumstances that make them to hold on.

islam kan mudah. Manusia yang memberatkan sesuatu perkara yang tak perlu diberatkan. budaya itu lebih memberatkan.

Honestly, i haven't seen someone like a friend or a relative or a neighbor or whoever i knew that have done something like this. and that is why i am asking, is this for real? and what if,  i said, what if,  what if i wanna make this happen for the sake of Him?   and another questions came up in my mind, am i ready like seriously ready mentally? and of what people will say?   and for the people i loved the most, who always be around me can accept my decision?  and what about commitment? as a child, a student and whatever tittle i am. and last but very important thing to questioned, is he with me, with what i am thinking about?

so is this a realistic for nowadays?

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